In the naughts, I spent sometime on FB. Kana was rarely pleased, and like many things that didn't please her, I learned the wisdom of her ways too late.
I recently learned to distinguish between people living for FB v. living. I've also noticed Striking similarities between my living for my blog v. living. I've made the point for some time that my blog is just another form of social media. With the exception of one person
no one has ever posted a comment on my blog.
In the 90s, there was much pontificating on the new media. The old media was seen as being predominantly one to many, and the new media facilitating many to one, one to many, as well as many to many. Perhaps. The new & old mass media lack 以心伝心。No matter how many comments your comments get, you aren't getting the nonverbal communication.
Last month I was packing my bicycle in a box in front of a bike shop a few hundred metres from The Ironman finish stretch. The shop is owned & STAFFED exclusively by homosexuals.
A native Hawaiian approached me. He was perusing the other cycles while silently ruminating about not being able to hear Her. Nonvebally I replied, you're not listening. He thanked me, verbally.
How does one listen?
First, one must hear. One hears much in just a word. One hears now, later, eternally. One listens constantly. One must persistently improve one's hearing and listening.
In the 80s, I read a book by one of my idols.
Mr. Iacocca suggested that prioritisation was the most important skill. BrandiQ claim that in my case, while prioritising is essential, there's a more important ability which I possess in spades, thoroughness. You might be the best water skier in the world
for your height. Nonetheless, if you're unwilling to punish yourself to achieve, every nanosecond of every second of every minute of every...
Everything you see me do is possible because of what you don't.
